Selah2020: Pause and Reflect

[This is one in a series of devotional reflections prepared for Horley Baptist Church during December 2021]

Iuliana Horatia Ewing was an American author in the late 19^th century, contemporary with the better-known Charles Dickens. Unlike Dickens’s full-length novels, Ewing’s writings were more of the short-story genre but they included similar motifs endorsing the benefits of moral behaviour.

In her 1862 story “Melchior’s Dream”^[1] she relates the tale of Richard, one of ten children, who envies the lifestyle of his only-child friend. “If only there were no such thing as brothers and sisters” he laments, wishing that the resources of the family did not have to be shared 10-ways. This dissatisfaction comes to a head on Christmas Eve with arguments about who is hogging the fire or occupying the best seats, and similar relatively petty grumbles.

A family visitor overhears the argument, calms the children and relates to them the story of Melchior’s dream. Melchior and his many siblings are in a large horse-drawn coach travelling amidst a cross-section of the society of their day. As time rapidly passes the children one by one leave the coach, by reason of distraction or death, until only Melchior remains. Melchior’s remorse increases as each one leaves until he pleads for time to be reversed. His request is denied. When the dream ends, Richard recognises himself in the role of Melchior and resolves to appreciate the family of which he is a part.

Even today, Christmas is depicted as a time for families, for peace and goodwill to all people, but how fragile that image can be. As we approach Christmas what is it that occupies our thoughts? So many presents to wrap, so many meals to prepare, so many celebrations to attend. Perhaps if only there weren’t so many obligations it might be a more enjoyable time.

Are there relationships that you need to heal? Are there rifts between friends and family, even within the church that represents God’s family? It can be difficult and it is easy to procrastinate but Christmas may represent the best opportunity for forgiveness and restoration.

The name Melchior is said to be derived from a Hebrew phrase meaning ‘King of Light’ and in a church tradition dating from the 4th century it is ascribed to one of the wise men who sought out the infant Jesus. Amidst all the seasonal illuminations, stars and candles will we be still be able to find the true King of Light?

A final word from Melchior’s Dream. The author prefaces her story with a quotation from the English poet and priest, George Herbert. It is in the form of a prayer; perhaps one that we would do well to adopt for ourselves.
“Thou that hast given so much to me, Give one thing more – a grateful heart.”

[1] ISBN-13: 9798470680792.

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