Selah2020: Pause and Reflect

[This is one in a series of devotional reflections prepared for Horley Baptist Church during December 2021]

“It’s over, now for a rest”. Another Christmas passes into history and there’s more than 360 shopping days before the next one, Was it a memorable celebration or eminently forgettable?

I recall a Christmas, over 50 years ago. Christmas lunch was baked beans on toast eaten whilst seated on a beach. It was one of those tropical beaches which travel brochures describe as idyllic, in a country where the primary celebration meal for Christmas was held on Christmas Eve. The main course featured eland steak grilled to look like zebra. Carols such as “In the bleak mid-winter” and “See amid the winter snow” did seem a little out of place in an area that had neither winter nor snow. It was Christmas, but not as we know it.

For those of us with birthdays in Christmas week it can sometimes seem that our special days get overlooked in the preparations for Christmas. Worse than that, we are expected to be thankful when receiving only one present to cover both occasions! Maybe of greater value is the lesson in humility and the management of expectations.

What is your experience of Christmas; how does that match up to your expectations? Does Christmas past invoke happy memories of family fellowship and healthy hilarity or was it subdued by empty seats around the table? Is it a case of gifts today and bills tomorrow? Perhaps it was enough that Christmas passed, just another day crossed off on the calendar.

The earliest mention of Christmas in Old English dates from 1038 although the feast itself was celebrated much earlier – some records place it at 200AD in Egypt. The determination of the date for Christmas Day is much later and to this day some Eastern Orthodox denominations celebrate Christmas Day on 6th January. In 1644 the English parliament banned the celebration of Christmas, insisting that it should be a normal working day.

Most dusty details from history get forgotten quickly, so what is it about Christmas that makes us continue to celebrate it? Is it just an opportunity to overspend and delay the consequences until next year? Perhaps it is the peer pressure – you can only say “humbug!” a limited number of times. Or could it be that there is actually something more in this story about a baby born in an obscure Jewish town some 2,000 years ago?

In many Christian traditions, the period immediately prior to Christmas is designated as ‘Advent’, a conveniently ambiguous term that can refer both to the birth of Jesus at Christmas and also his return as a conquering king. We put a lot of effort into celebrating his first coming; shouldn’t we be equally diligent about his return?

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[This is one in a series of devotional reflections prepared for Horley Baptist Church during December 2021]

Christmas trees, Christmas candles, Christmas presents, Christmas crackers, Christmas cake – what do they all have in common? Perhaps a more important question would be “What is missing from all of them?” For us, as followers of Jesus, the answer to that is ‘Christ’.

Of course, many people will argue that what we celebrate as Christmas is merely another example of Christians hijacking an existing celebration and trying to sanctify it. Why then is it called ‘Christmas’? Surely another name would be more appropriate. Indeed, there was recently an attempt by the European Commission to ban the term ‘Christmas’. That attempt was short-lived, this time.

Why is it that so many people are content to use Christ’s birth as an excuse for celebration but do not want to be bothered with the implications of his life and the achievement of his death? Maybe it is that, for most people, Christ is not really present at Christmas.

Where is he?
This is the question that the Wise Men asked when they arrived in Jerusalem. They had been faithfully following the star until they were in sight of what they thought would be the end of their quest to find the infant Jesus. Having jumped to a conclusion and abandoned their guide they found that they had got it wrong.

Where is he?
This is the question that Herod demanded of his advisors when the Wise Men came knocking. They, at least, knew the answer even if they dismissed the information as insignificant. No doubt Herod repeated the question when he realised that the Wise Men had ignored his instructions but by that time Jesus was in Egypt.

Where is he?
This is the question that Mary and Joseph asked of their friends and relatives when the twelve-year-old Jesus had stayed on in Jerusalem. Very few people are recognised as ‘great’ at the time of their birth; it is what they have achieved by the time of their death that defines greatness. Did Mary and Joseph assume that their miraculous baby had become just an ordinary adolescent after all?

Where is he?
This is the question that Mary Magdalene asked early one morning outside Christ’s empty tomb. She thought the man who appeared out of the mist was the gardener. As he spoke to her she realised that Jesus wasn’t dead and buried but that he was alive and alongside.

Where is he?
Surely this is the question that we too should be asking at Christmas time. Our four scenarios offer four answers:

• He’s not here
• He’s gone away
• He’s been forgotten
• He’s here with me

 
Where is he? What’s your answer?

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[This is one in a series of devotional reflections prepared for Horley Baptist Church during December 2021]

Iuliana Horatia Ewing was an American author in the late 19^th century, contemporary with the better-known Charles Dickens. Unlike Dickens’s full-length novels, Ewing’s writings were more of the short-story genre but they included similar motifs endorsing the benefits of moral behaviour.

In her 1862 story “Melchior’s Dream”^[1] she relates the tale of Richard, one of ten children, who envies the lifestyle of his only-child friend. “If only there were no such thing as brothers and sisters” he laments, wishing that the resources of the family did not have to be shared 10-ways. This dissatisfaction comes to a head on Christmas Eve with arguments about who is hogging the fire or occupying the best seats, and similar relatively petty grumbles.

A family visitor overhears the argument, calms the children and relates to them the story of Melchior’s dream. Melchior and his many siblings are in a large horse-drawn coach travelling amidst a cross-section of the society of their day. As time rapidly passes the children one by one leave the coach, by reason of distraction or death, until only Melchior remains. Melchior’s remorse increases as each one leaves until he pleads for time to be reversed. His request is denied. When the dream ends, Richard recognises himself in the role of Melchior and resolves to appreciate the family of which he is a part.

Even today, Christmas is depicted as a time for families, for peace and goodwill to all people, but how fragile that image can be. As we approach Christmas what is it that occupies our thoughts? So many presents to wrap, so many meals to prepare, so many celebrations to attend. Perhaps if only there weren’t so many obligations it might be a more enjoyable time.

Are there relationships that you need to heal? Are there rifts between friends and family, even within the church that represents God’s family? It can be difficult and it is easy to procrastinate but Christmas may represent the best opportunity for forgiveness and restoration.

The name Melchior is said to be derived from a Hebrew phrase meaning ‘King of Light’ and in a church tradition dating from the 4th century it is ascribed to one of the wise men who sought out the infant Jesus. Amidst all the seasonal illuminations, stars and candles will we be still be able to find the true King of Light?

A final word from Melchior’s Dream. The author prefaces her story with a quotation from the English poet and priest, George Herbert. It is in the form of a prayer; perhaps one that we would do well to adopt for ourselves.
“Thou that hast given so much to me, Give one thing more – a grateful heart.”

[1] ISBN-13: 9798470680792.

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