The Light Burden

[Transcript of “A 5 minute cuppa” published by Horley Baptist Church on YouTube[1], May 2021]
Sandy

Hi everyone, welcome to ‘a five minute cuppa’. This is the place that you can come any time of day, just for five minutes, to relax, put your feet up, have a cuppa and listen to a few words to help you grow in your relationship with God.

I wonder what kind of worrier you are. Do you have anxieties about all kinds of little things or are you the kind of person that saves your worries for real calamities? You might even be the kind of person that has to think about a worst possible scenario every day in case it happens, just to make sure you’re ready for it.

Worrying seems to be part of the human condition, we all do it. The habit of worrying can take over our thought patterns, sap us of energy and stop us enjoying our life. We all know worrying isn’t good for our mental or physical health so how can our God relationship help us to live closer to the way our father originally planned?

You’re probably all familiar with these words of Jesus from Matthew’s gospel: “Come to me all you who are weary and burdened and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me and you will find rest for your souls for my yoke is easy and my burden light.

My favourite account of these words comes from the Message version of the Bible and they bring home to me even more God’s desire for us to live free from our own deep concerns and worries. “Are you tired, worn out? Come to me, get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me, watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you, keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly.

What truly amazing words! That whatever paws at us and perturbs us in our day, whoever needs our attention, whatever difficult decisions we need to understand or make, whatever questions we cannot answer, these things can weigh lightly on us in a way that keeps our spirit settled and secure, and with the confidence that comes from knowing that God has everything in hand.

In recent years as I have taken on great responsibility for the lives and well-being of others. In my work life and home life I’ve needed to learn how to give up the things that so easily weigh me down and take up that light burden instead. I’ve found that the key to doing something differently is to always transform or change the way that I think first. Simply put, just get those words into my mind so that they are just as prominent as the way I breathe. Thank you, God, that I can come to you when I’m worn out, I can walk with you and you’ll show me the way to do it. You won’t lay anything ill-fitting on me, you will help me to live freely and lightly.

Once the words are in my mind, I ask for them to move to my heart so that I have a full understanding of what they mean so I can really live them out. I remember vividly God reminding me that he never slumbers or sleeps but he is always able to work on the things that are concerning me when I’m tired or unwell or asleep, and the outcome doesn’t depend solely on my efforts. God invites me to be a co-worker in what he’s doing and I can definitely play a part but he is the centre point, the kingpin, not me.

Once this head realization moved to my inner being I found I was able to still care deeply about situations and people but in a way that didn’t become heavy and burdensome. The habit of worrying was displaced by the habit of giving up the burdens to God and trusting him to keep working on them even when I no longer could.

Do you need to discover how to walk with a light burden? It’s absolutely for us all; just ask if you can keep him company. He’ll never say no to that.


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[1] YouTube link: The Light Burden
Bible references: Matthew 11 v28-30
 

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Contributor: Sandy Turner

What Think You?

[This is one in a series of mid-week devotional reflections prepared for Horley Baptist Church during May 2021]

How can we sing the songs of the Lord while in a foreign land? [Psalm 137 v4 NIVUK]

In the conclusion of his talk with Angie a few days ago, Martin posed some questions about our feelings about the potential for re-launching ‘church’ rather than just reviving what had existed before. In this Tuesday Challenge I want to revisit those questions. As one who has been ‘doing church at a distance’ for over 10 ten years, my experience is rather different from that of someone who thinks of lockdown as an interruption to normal activities. Nevertheless, perhaps my comments will provide some stimulus for further thoughts.

Are you looking forward to returning to physical church, or are you quite happy accessing online church at home?
For me, returning to physical church is not currently an option so my vote would go to continuing to provide access to church activities online. There are many categories of people for whom physical attendance at a conventional service is difficult; the online option allows them to sustain the contact. In addition, it is not a betrayal of HBC to suggest that there are other choice morsels available elsewhere on the internet menu. If I prefer more classical singing, it is there; if I want in-depth teaching on a particular topic or passage, it is there; if I want to see how other denominations practise their faith then that is there too. A varied diet stimulates the appetite and we may well learn something new that will benefit our own worship times.
That is not to say that everything we see is wholesome or helpful. We need to emulate those in Berea who heard Paul’s teachings and then tested them against the Scriptures. Perhaps one of the most important roles of a physical church or home group is to teach us how to make sound judgements about what we see and hear.

What have you missed most? What were you glad to do without?
What I have missed most has been the home group – the detailed look at the Scriptures, the focussed prayers, the discussions, the prolonged debates after hours, the handed-down wisdom of those who have travelled ahead of me.
Notwithstanding a degree of envy towards those who can use their talents to praise the Lord in song we should remember that ‘worship’ is more than a musical interlude in the service. The whole service should be an integrated act of worship, leaders and congregation alike, and that is more difficult to achieve online.

Does change excite or worry you? Does it even make you angry? Why?
Change is not necessarily progress. There is an old saying which has been widely ignored during this century, in many aspects of life: ‘If it ain’t broke don’t fix it’. How have the things that we want to change come about? They were themselves the outcome of change but why? We need to examine the reasons for the proposed changes, to ensure that they are indeed changes for the better. Change for a valid reason can be honourable; change simply for change’s sake is not.

Even amongst the disruption, have we felt that God has been shaping and working in us, our community, and our church?
Throughout history, God has used disruption to work his purposes out. He disrupted Noah, he disrupted Abram, he disrupted Jacob, he disrupted the Hebrews in Egypt. In fact, one gets the impression that disruption is God’s ‘modus operandi’; it is through contentment and complacency that his people tend to lose touch with him. We should not be surprised when God allows the boat to rock, be reassured that he still controls the storm.

Psalm 137 is a lament. The author, possibly Jeremiah, describes the sadness and despair of those who are unable to enjoy the worship if the Lord in the ways that they remembered from before their exile. But, is a lament for the ‘good old days’ appropriate for us? We have seen God at work through the new technologies; they are neither new nor a mystery to him. For various valid reasons, some churches have decided that modern means of communication are beyond them. Such decisions must be respected but perhaps God’s words through Isaiah are more appropriate for us:

See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland. [Isaiah 43 v19 NIVUK]


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Contributor: Steve Humphreys

It’s a Jungle Out There

[This is one in a series of devotional reflections prepared for Horley Baptist Church during May 2021]

In Rudyard Kipling’s epic story ‘Jungle Book’, Mowgli is the man-cub, an orphan boy who is brought up by a pack of wolves in the Indian jungle. He encounters a variety of wild animals, both friendly and otherwise; there’s his bumbling friend Baloo the bear, the somewhat aloof panther Bagheera, the duplicitous snake Kaa and his arch-enemy Shere Khan the tiger. Later in the story we encounter Colonel Hathi with his parade of elephants and King Louie who leads a colony of apes that lives in an abandoned temple.

The story has had the ‘Walt Disney’ treatment, introducing phrases and snatches of songs that have, perhaps, become more familiar than the original story. We can identify with the quest for the bare necessities of life, the need to control the power of man’s red flower and the allure of the king of the swingers. Some can see a spiritual dimension in the serpent whispering “trusssst in me” and the devilish intentions of the tiger, whilst the eventual return of Mowgli to the man-village is likened to the arrival of Pilgrim at the Celestial City.

What is the relevance of this story in the context of a devotional reflection? What can we learn that might be of value in our day-to-day circumstances and our walk with God? Does God’s own survival guide offer any advice?

The Lord is my shepherd, I lack nothing. He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters, he refreshes my soul. He guides me along the right paths for his name’s sake.[1]

As we awake each morning, whether to the trumpets of the dawn patrol or the shrill call of a smart-phone, our Shepherd knows our needs for that day, and he knows just how to satisfy them.

Mowgli would not have survived without his friends – that’s what friends are for. Even if we live as a hermit or the sole believer in a secular situation, we are not without a friend. The Holy Spirit will be a guide and comforter, if we allow him.

Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows.

It is a jungle out there. Life is beset with temptations, trials and traps. There are people who would gain great satisfaction from making life difficult for us. Generally, God places us in communities of both believers and non-believers. Some will help us, some will hinder us but in both cases God can use them to realise his plans for us, and they are all for our good.

Surely your goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the Lord for ever.

Life in the jungle will not last for ever. There is a home at the end of the road; a village with many mansions awaits those who trust in Jesus Christ as saviour and faithfully follow him.

Is your name in his book of invitees?


[1] All quotations from Psalm 23, NIVUK

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ALL CHANGE!

[This reflection was published in the weekly news bulletin of Horley Baptist Church, 16/May/2021]

I’m quite aware that not everyone sees things as I do! But I’m also quite sure, based on the observations of up-to-date Christian writers and private conversations I’ve had, that many of us are secretly thinking things we don’t dare speak about openly. So … here goes!

Very recently, while in group prayer, I had a mental picture of a bus at a stop. The driver was standing outside the bus calling out, ‘All change!‘ His passengers were getting off his bus and boarding another which had just pulled up in front of it. I immediately had what I think is a prophetic interpretation of the scenario: Bus 1 had apparently achieved its purpose – it had taken people so far. What wasn’t clear to me was whether, 1) this change of bus was a normal part of the route, or 2) this was an emergency caused by a breakdown of the first bus.

I think option 2 is correct. No-one expected to have to change buses to complete their journey. BUT THEY WOULD NEVER BE ABLE TO GET WHERE THEY WANTED TO GO IF THEY REFUSED THE ‘ALL CHANGE’ CALL! Bus 1 had not really served its purpose, but the passengers couldn’t have realised that before getting to this stop.

Here’s where things get really challenging. Greta Thunberg, the teenage climate change activist, says that when we find ourselves tackling a life-or-death catastrophe, small adjustments to our lifestyle are FAILURES; only radical change will make the necessary difference!

I apply that to church. If we’re going to complete our journey, to fulfil Jesus’s ‘great commission’ (Matt 28: 19-20) we need to wake up to the truth that our traditional ‘means of transport’ has failed to get us where Jesus wants to take us. We need the courage, the DESPERATION, to get on that next bus. We’ll be surprised to see who’s driving it!!


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Contributor: Dennis Ginter

Do I Have Anything To Offer?

[Transcript of a midweek message published by Horley Baptist Church on YouTube[1], May 2021]

It’s easy to talk about the church as a body, with every part important and necessary, but does our definition of church make it difficult for some people to use their gifts? Do we try and force people to fit into a mould they were never designed for?

On Sunday morning, Helen talked about the fact that the church is like a body where every individual part is important, it’s essential, it has a part to play in the life and the workings of the church. Maybe by the end of it you were left thinking “I don’t know what part I’ve got to play, I don’t know what gift I’ve got to offer, I’ve got nothing that I can offer to the church” and perhaps you’re right; you haven’t got anything to offer.

I think we would probably all agree that church isn’t the building and, if this past year and a bit has done anything, it’s proved that fact but I think many of us fall into the mistake of thinking that church is a service. That time on a Sunday morning or possibly an evening when for an hour and a bit you sing songs, listen to a sermon, have tea and coffee, if you’re lucky a bit of cake as well. Or maybe you also include in that definition a home group or a community group that you meet with midweek to study the Bible. Because we define church that way often the roles and the responsibilities that we deem as important are shaped by that particular context.

I as a church leader fall into that trap time and time again. If I think about how am I going to grow our church, how are we going to make it successful, what I need to employ a worship leader or a youth worker or a community outreach person. I’ve got to work hard, employ the right people, get people in the right the right jobs in order to build the church.

Well, actually maybe that’s my first mistake; thinking that I – that we -need to build the church because the Bible makes it clear that the church belongs to Jesus. In fact Jesus called it his body and Jesus said “I will build my church”. It’s his church, it’s his body, it’s his responsibility. Now that doesn’t let us off the hook. We’ve still got a part to play in that but it is not our job to build the church.

Maybe you’re thinking “well I still don’t see where I fit in, I still don’t see that I have gifts that’s going to help the church to grow I don’t know what part I have to play”.

Maybe that’s our second mistake. I think we have too narrow a definition of church. We need to broaden how we view church, how we understand church and it is so much more than just a Sunday service or a midweek meeting. See, church is a community of people who are journeying in faith together and empowering and equipping each other to live out their faith 24-7 in whatever context you, I, we may find ourselves: with our friends, with our family, at work, at play, at the leisure centre, at the chess club, at the gardening club or at the school gates. God has placed you in a particular context with particular people to do a particular job. In fact, that’s what God has designed you to do. You are fearfully and wonderfully made for a particular purpose and those things that make you different, that perhaps makes it difficult for you to fit in at church and exercise gifts are the very things that make you indispensable.

So it’s quite possible to argue that our churches have got a bit ‘samey’ in this country; full of white elderly women led by white well-educated men. Actually, variety really is the spice of life. Variety, I think, is what makes church more indicative of Christ. It’s what makes us more effective, it makes us more able to reach out to those hard-to-reach areas, those people that look at church and think “Well, there’s no one there like me so why would I want to be part of that?

I think what myself as a church leader and us as the institution of the church need to learn is how to raise up leaders who are different, to equip and empower those whose gifts don’t fall into that narrow definition of of church gifts that serve the service, gifts that are about producing a show basically.

It means I need to recognize those people that bring something of Christ into their communities, into their workplaces, into their homes, and inspire them, help them to realize, how he helped you to realize that God has a plan for you that God has made you with a purpose and God wants to work with you to bring his kingdom and its values of justice, love, mercy and peace into every aspect of your life.

You do have a part to play, you are important. Maybe you need to chat to God and maybe a church leader about that.


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[1] YouTube link: Do I Have Anything To Offer?
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Contributor: Martin Shorey

Surprising Relationships

[Transcript of “A 5 minute cuppa” published by Horley Baptist Church on YouTube[1], May 2021]
Sandy

Hi everyone, welcome to ‘a five minute cuppa’. This is the place that you can come any time of day, just for five minutes, to relax, put your feet up, have a cuppa and listen to a few words to help you grow in your relationship with God.

Over the last couple of weeks we have been thinking about how God prompts us to pray for people that are on his heart and we have been practising blessing others and doing them good by speaking through the acronym ‘b l e s s‘ bless – asking for God to do people good in their body, in their labour, their emotions, their social and spiritual relationships.

Today we’re going to think about how we can pray for people and have a good attitude towards them if for some reason we don’t naturally get along or if the relationship isn’t at all easy. It could be a work colleague, a family member, a political figure or well-known personality. It might even be someone that we once got on with well but the relationship or friendship has broken down or failed. I’m sure we can all think of people that we struggle with. Is it possible to pray for these people in the way we do for those that are naturally on our hearts?

I suppose we could just ignore these people in situations – at least we’re not purposefully hurting them. It seems to me though that this isn’t an option for a follower of Jesus. Those famous words of Jesus ring in my ears: “Love your enemies and pray for those that do you harm”.

Is that even possible, humanly speaking? When we look at the world around us both near and far it doesn’t look at all possible. But I believe that when we choose to ask God to come in and help rather than taking the easier option of ignoring or giving into bad thoughts, he does come alongside and show us surprising possibilities that were not at all on our radar. When I am in this situation struggling with the relationship there are two questions I dare to ask God that he always seems to answer.

First, I ask him to show me how he sees the person, not in their failed state but how God created their inner person before life did harm to them. In other words, I’m asking God “Why do you like this person, what is so amazing about them?

Then I ask him to show me what has happened to them to make them the way they are, the things that have formed the negative characteristics that may cause problems both for the person and for those around them.

The result of this is always the same: God softens my heart towards them. I often find I can be with them happily or I can be in the same place and not be affected by the feelings associated with that person previously. Over time I find that rather than choosing to ignore the difficulties I can acknowledge them and pray and bless the person, honestly wanting the best for them. God is full of surprises; he can and does make important relationships happen when we least expect it. He can even rebuild relationships that we think are irretrievably broken.

God is all about making damaged relationships whole. After all, that is the main message of the cross on which our faith firmly stands.


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[1] YouTube link: Surprising Relationships
Bible references: Matthew 5 v44
 

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Contributor: Sandy Turner