Lean not on your own understanding

[This reflection was published in the weekly news bulletin of Horley Baptist Church, 07/Feb/2021]

This word of Wisdom is found in Proverbs 3:5-6. Let’s not miss the words at the beginning: ‘Trust (rely on, depend on) the Lord with all your heart‘. How apt this is right now! A few weeks ago, Martin explored the question ‘What is truth?’ Today, more than ever before, we cannot rest assured that anything we see or hear – especially on social media – is reliable. There is every imaginable slant on every issue.

‘The scientists can be trusted when they speak about Covid ‘. ‘Oh, no! They can’t even agree amongst themselves. And most of them are part of an evil worldwide conspiracy to scare all of us into complying with those in power.’

‘The American elections were conducted fairly’. ‘Oh, no! The people were duped by an evil secret plot to unseat God’s man and put in place a stooge who will drag us into socialism (or worse), and rob us of our basic freedoms!’

Even decent people don’t know what to believe any more. What can they ‘lean on’? The first 4 chapters of Proverbs are all about the incredible blessings awaiting those who trust God in the midst of confusion and anxiety.

In Matthew 6:25-34, Jesus puts his stamp on it: ‘Give your entire attention to what God is doing right now, and don’t get worked up about what may or may not happen tomorrow‘. [The Message]

I think, as children of a wise and loving Father, we CAN hear His voice. And it brings not confusion and fear, but peace and trust. We may be ridiculed for taking such a naive, child-like position but I’d rather put up with that than take sides on things I really don’t understand!
What about you?

Contributor: Dennis Ginter

How do I know if I’m right?

[Transcript of a midweek message published by Horley Baptist Church on YouTube[1], February 2021]
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In our current times we see an increasing amount of anger and division. People certain that they are right, and everyone else is wrong. But how can we tell if we are right if we’re not prepared to listen to those who think differently?

Apart from COVID, the one defining thing of 2020, I think, is an increase in tribalism. People separating themselves, dividing themselves into their separate groups. I don’t know whether it’s the fear of COVID or just the fact that people have been unable to go outside and meet with other people, and have been spending more time in their social media echo chambers. But, whatever it is, the thing that has become fashionable in 2020 and again in 2021 is to be angry, to be outraged at anyone who could possible act differently or think differently to you. The battle lines have been drawn over race and gender, sexuality and politics.

People have responded to those with differing opinions themselves in maybe two different ways. One way is to mute them, to put them on mute, to stop them having a public voice, to cancel them, to petition against them, to have them removed from any position where their voice can be heard. But another way is to go out on the streets, to protest or to write angry letters or social media posts, even to loot and riot, to shout as loudly as you can in any way that will enable your voice to be heard.

See, whatever category these groups, these people might fall into in terms of their actions, what they have in common is their inability to listen to other people, to try and understand a differing point of view. Now, psychologists can give you numerous reasons why people don’t listen, why we don’t listen, why you don’t listen. I’m not going to name all of them but I’m just going to give a few examples. I want you to think about them and be honest about whether or not you fall into these categories:

  • One of them is truth, this need to be right, to be true, that you hold the only truth and anyone who doesn’t agree with you has to be wrong.
  • Another one is blame; the fault lies in the other person, that the problem is not you but someone else so why on earth would you listen to them?
  • Another one is self-deception, that you can’t believe that you could possibly be wrong. Or there’s defectiveness, you have a real fear of criticism, of people telling you that you are wrong so it’s far better to just not listen rather than face the possibility of someone saying that you’re at fault.
  • And then there’s coercion, the sensitivity that you are particularly fearful and uncomfortable with any idea that someone might be forcing you or coercing you to act in a certain way or to think in a certain way. In other words, you do not want to be told what to do and what to think.

 
These are just a few reasons why people don’t listen to other people, why people would rather surround themselves with people like them than actually take the time out to be curious, to ask questions and to try to understand a different point of view to your own.

But I want to leave you with a thought – a question really. The question is this: “What does it feel like to be wrong?” You might say that it feels embarrassing, humiliating, but that’s what it feels like to find out that you are wrong. See the truth is, being wrong feels exactly the same as being right. So how are you going to find out which one you are?


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Contributor: Martin Shorey

The Sound of the Shepherd

[This is one in a series of mid-week Reflections prepared for Horley Baptist Church during February 2021]

I am a regular visitor to a group that meets on Sunday evenings, online via YouTube[1]. The focus of the group is a ‘Virtual Service’ comprising hymn tunes presented by an accomplished British organist but the virtual congregation is world wide. As is common with physical congregations there is a lot of interaction between the members – a church organist in Oregon compares notes with one in England, choristers voice their preference for one hymn tune over another, people from a variety of denominations discuss their different ways of worship. As the congregation gets to know each other we can share on a wider range of topics: family events, recipes, pets, prayer requests.

It is an international congregation with people from each of the six habitable continents. In a way, it reminds me of the words of Jesus when he said:

“I have other sheep that are not of this sheepfold. I must bring them also. They too will listen to my voice, and there shall be one flock and one shepherd.” [John 10 v16 NIVUK]

Flock
How are we to understand this verse? Most established Bible commentators fall into one of two camps. Some argue that Jesus was talking to Jews and referring to Gentiles, others prefer a time-based interpretation which assumes that he was thinking of future generations. Some people may be tempted to limit it to members of the same denomination who live in a different town or a different country. Others will think of people whose beliefs are similar to their own, but with a different understanding on certain important, but secondary, aspects whilst others will argue that it allows for a significant divergence in liturgy.

Whilst there might be some controversy over the meaning of sheepfold there can be no doubt as to those who are in the flock. In an earlier verse Jesus said “I am the good shepherd; I know my sheep and my sheep know me”.

Do you know Jesus as your shepherd? Have you claimed your place in his flock? Jesus himself stated the process quite bluntly:

“God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. … Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever does not believe stands condemned already because they have not believed in the name of God’s one and only Son.” [John 3 v16, 18 NIVUK]

What is the future of this flock? In John 17 we have the opportunity to eavesdrop on Jesus as he prays to his Father.

“Father, I want those you have given me to be with me where I am, and to see my glory, the glory you have given me because you loved me before the creation of the world.” [John 17 v24 NIVUK]

Surely there is no better reason for following the voice of the shepherd.


[1] Virtual Church on YouTube, A programme of organ music and live chat with an international congregation.

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Contributor: Steve Humphreys

A Day Like Any Other….?

[This reflection was published in the weekly news bulletin of Horley Baptist Church, 31/Jan/2021]

It was probably just another day, a day like any other, at least that’s what Joseph must have felt that morning as he got ready to go and supervise things at Pharaoh’s grain market. He certainly wasn’t expecting to hear his native tongue being spoken and when he looked up, he certainly wasn’t expecting to see his brothers.

It was probably just another day, one like any other, when Moses led the sheep up the mountain, heard a crackling noise, looked and saw a bush on fire… except the bush didn’t burn down! He then heard a voice telling him he was standing on holy ground….. His life was never the same after that.

It was probably just another day, one like most others, when a young Hebrew girl, going about her business encountered an angel named Gabriel. Her life was never the same after that.

It was probably just another day, one like any other, when a young man named Saul started off on his way to round up more of the followers of this dead Rabbi. Then as he passed the sign saying ‘Damascus this way’, he wondered what that bright light that had suddenly appeared was…… His life was never the same after that.

For me, I can’t remember what I did that particular morning just over 30 years ago; you could say it was a day like any other, but I agreed to go to an evening church service I had been invited to. Odd, because at that time, I didn’t do church. I went, however, perhaps out of politeness, or perhaps because I was fed up of being asked so often and had run out of reasons not to go. I can’t remember what the sermon was, but after it was over, I walked up to the altar and said God, “If what you are offering is true, please show me and help me to follow you as I can’t do it in my own strength and I’m tired of running“. My life has never been the same since then.

I don’t know what you are going through (aside from a worldwide pandemic), don’t know what challenges you have, don’t know how tired you might feel, but one day, a day like any other, you might hear God’s call. On that day, rather than be speechless, you could paraphrase Samuel and say “Speak Lord, I’m listening”, and then trust Him as he takes you on life’s journey. Believe me, your life will never be the same after that. Remember, it is likely to start off as a day like any other day.


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Contributor: David Makanjuola

What Have You Achieved?

[This is one in a series of mid-week Reflections published by Horley Baptist Church during February 2021]

We were on child-minding duty recently. Young David had a break from his online lessons and started to play one of his video games. It seems that he has had rather too much practice and he moved through the game too rapidly for me to follow. However, I did catch sight of a dialogue box with a message that started a chain of thought.

Achievements cannot be credited in this world.

From what I understood, it seemed that the accumulated achievements of one phase of the game would open a way to access another higher level but, having done that, the player started the next phase with no extra benefits. Is there a parallel with those who hope their achievements in this life will give them access to heaven?
Monastery Gate, Putna

The story is told of a man who approached the gate of Heaven with two heavy suitcases. “You can’t bring them in here” said the gatekeeper. The man replied “But they represent my life’s achievements, they’re worth a fortune!” The gatekeeper opened the suitcases and saw that they were filled with gold bars. He turned to the man and asked “Why have you brought more paving slabs?

Achievements cannot be credited in this world.

Is there any merit in amassing credits or storing up treasure if you are not going to be able to benefit from them? This does not mean that our achievements during our time in this world are worthless; rather that we cannot take them with us when we move on. Throughout history we can see people whose achievements have been of great benefit to those who followed them but, in a paraphrase of Job’s observation, they came into the world empty-handed and they left empty-handed.

The apostle Paul wrote to his protege Timothy:

“Command those who are rich in this present world not to be arrogant nor to put their hope in wealth, which is so uncertain, but to put their hope in God, who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment. Command them to do good, to be rich in good deeds, and to be generous and willing to share.” [1 Timothy 6 v17-18 NIVUK]

Philanthropy depends on there being a surplus of income over expenditure but philanthropy itself is not a ticket to Heaven. Such blessings as we have have been lent to us by God and we do well to remember that, in his parables, Jesus addressed some of the harshest criticism to those who did nothing with the talents that had been entrusted to them.

This raises the question of “What motivates our achievements?” It is not good works that achieve eternal life but rather eternal life that promotes good works. A better answer comes from the grand master of motivational speaking, Jesus himself, in his Sermon on the Mount:

“Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works and glorify your Father in heaven.” [Matthew 5 v16 NIVUK]


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Contributor: Steve Humphreys

Is Love Just a Feeling?

[Transcript of a midweek message published by Horley Baptist Church on YouTube[1], January 2021]

The movies tell us that love is a feeling worth giving up everything for, but what happens when the feelings die? Is love just a feeling or is it much more than that?

Would you say you are a romantic? Maybe you’re the sort of person that loves those romantic movies – you know the ones, they all seem to be the same. You have two unlikely people who come together and fall in love and, despite what the world throws at them, and usually despite some sort of misunderstanding, the feelings of love overcomes all and by the end of the film they’re together because the love, that feeling of love is worth more than anything else. It’s worth more than anything the world could possibly offer as an alternative.

[00:58] Maybe you’ve experienced that kind of love. Maybe you are experiencing that kind of love, that kind of heady feeling, that madness when your love for the other person is more important than anything else. You just can’t think of anything else but, whereas in those films the film ends at the moment when the love is fully realized, in life life carries on and we live our lives. We get married, we carry on and the habits of life get in the way, the routines of life, and maybe that feeling of love starts to fade away. Maybe you wake up one morning, you think ‘do I even love that person any more?’ and unfortunately those feelings of love can be replaced with feelings of annoyance and even anger. Perhaps that’s why so many marriages fail. It makes you question the wisdom of marriage and monogamy.

[02:22] Now the Bible says that God is love. If you wanted to define God with one word then that word would be ‘love’ and we as human beings know love because we’re children of God, because we are made in the image of God. But if love is fickle and temporary then what does that say about God and what does that say about us?

[02:53] When I was growing up one of my favourite bands was “Massive Attack”. In one of their songs the lyrics went ‘Love is a verb, love is a doing word’ and maybe that one sentence gives us a clue. It gives us an understanding of why we’ve got love so wrong in our movies and unfortunately in our lives as well. That love is about action, it’s about doing things, it’s about demonstrating our love, and I don’t mean that by buying flowers or a box of chocolates. I mean love is truly love when it is enacted, when it is experienced beyond a feeling, when you do something for someone even when you don’t want to, even when you don’t feel like it, even when it makes things hard, because actually you recognize that love is about doing. It’s about action, it’s about demonstration. It isn’t about feelings.

[04:17] I believe that’s what Jesus demonstrated in his life and his ministry, love in action, and I think that says something really important about God. God isn’t fickle, God isn’t temporary. Actually God is permanent, God is unchanging and God loves us beyond anything that we could possibly earn ourselves. In fact the Bible says that God demonstrated his love for us by sending Jesus to the cross himself, sacrificed for those he loved. That’s a real challenge I think to us, particularly as when Jesus was asked what the greatest commandment is he said “well it’s basically love God, love others and love ourselves”. Not a fickle and temporary love but a love demonstrated by what we do.


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Just to say that our midweek messages are linked to our Sunday sermons and you can actually access those on our Horley Baptist YouTube channel. We’re actually finishing our series ‘living like Jesus’ this coming Sunday and we’re going to try something new on Sunday evening at 8pm on Facebook on the Horley Baptist Church Facebook page. We’re going to have a live discussion with Chris Tilling from St Mellitus college and Daz Jones from Horley Baptist Church about the sermon series, about those things that we’ve learned, those things that have challenged us, and we’re just going to take things a little bit deeper so do join us for that. Do watch live at 8pm on Sunday the 31st of January, that’s this coming Sunday.
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Contributor: Martin Shorey